StupidBird
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and he's well on his way to it. Heart attack, multiple health issues, super stress. Keeps promising but does nothing. Heavy guilt on my part - no job, assorted incapacities requiring good health insurance. I dream of moving to the better climate for my health the docs advise, him stepping down to a less soul-eating job, me getting back to work. I realize it'll be so much less money, but I don't want this fancy house, the electronics and toys. The kids are in college; can't breath easy there until they get jobs graduated.
We got chickens last year, and expanded the garden. Hens doing well, garden a flop again (bugs, disease, heat and I can't keep up when my health tanks). So my skills and abilities are not what I'd hoped for SS.
Sorry to dump so, but you all sound so sure of yourselves. Can I get some advice? How to make the break with a resistant spouse? I just feel a bit down about the whole situation today.
We got chickens last year, and expanded the garden. Hens doing well, garden a flop again (bugs, disease, heat and I can't keep up when my health tanks). So my skills and abilities are not what I'd hoped for SS.
Sorry to dump so, but you all sound so sure of yourselves. Can I get some advice? How to make the break with a resistant spouse? I just feel a bit down about the whole situation today.