First, I'm looking for just about any job temporarily to get me on my feet. Now, I'm even contemplating going to a temp agency. But, basically the first (real) step is getting my CDL license again so I can get a job with good pay. I let my CDL expire because, at the time, when I had my antique store, a) I had no desire to have a driving job anymore, and b) I didn't have the money to maintain the license. But now, in hindsight, I'm finding that, driving will probably be the only way to earn enough to get me really going. I'm going to at least get my class B CDL so I can drive a cement truck or haul dirt locally, or something like that. But, I may just go all out and get my class A license back because the potential of earning is even more.
I want to stay in the city. I'm definately a city boy. A life in the country, away from the city life, would in no time start to get to me. I've got to have more action. I think just getting property, and building on it, and everything else that goes with developing an undeveloped piece of property, would end up being too much of a headache and expense. Especially when I could get something like the property I pictured above for just $70,000. It's not off the grid, but I really don't care about being completely off the grid. If I did solar, I'd probably tie it into the grid as well as having a battery bank. I'd just use the city sewer system (at least for black water), but I may use a grey water system to help irrigate the gardens. Etc.... basically what I'm saying is that what I really want to do is have a homestead in the city.
As far as writting down my goals...not as much as I'd like. I used to use a system called "Getting Things Done" which is excellent. I need to get back into it. Basically, it has you focus on the first (or very next) step (task) instead of just looking at the whole project which can be too overwhelming. If you looked at all your tasks/to-do list as a whole, you may think you'll never finish this! But, by just focusing on ONLY the very next step, you can chip away at a massive to-do list, and before you know it, it's done. I'm glad you asked that, because now I'm going to start implementing the "GTD" method. I have a phone ap that is used for "GTD"