I just had a long talk about this very subject today with my D2. Her baby is due at the end of March.
She is a thin person by nature. She has really not gained an appreciable amount of weight as of yet and just has a bit of a pooch in her tummy to show for being pregnant. All of her doctor visits have gone great so far, the heart beat is nice and strong. SHE is feeling GREAT! She had a short time when she had little appetite, but she has never had any morning sickness. Her moods are great. She is strong and very healthy.
D2 is Celiac and VERY VERY allergic to wheat and gluten. (think epi-pen and hospital visits) This means that she MUST carefully control her diet. She always has been a person that prefers milk, juice or fresh water to a soda. She has always eaten very healthy and balanced diets. (At this point I take a bow. All of the work to raise her like I was NOT raised paid off!) So we have a healthy woman eating correctly and pregnant. Great right?
Then WHY is she getting grief from everyone around her. (well almost everyone) "OH you are not gaining weight! The baby is probably going to be very small." "What is the big deal about drinking caffeine?" "You want to BREAST FEED! Gross." "You shouldn't carry that grocery sack!" "You are not having cravings yet? Something must be the matter."
Unreal.
I was telling her tonight being pregnant is a sign that a woman is HEALTHY! People that are ill do not get pregnant. No cravings is because you are getting the nutrients that your body and your baby NEEDS. When the baby is the size of a orange your butt does not need to be the size of a semi. What you eat (even caffeine) does make a difference to the developing child. WHY not feed the baby the food that God designed for it? OM gosh. Why not carry a sack, take a walk, swim, jump, and in general exercise? Does sitting motionless for 9 months make you physically in condition to do the workout they call LABOR?
And here is the clincher. (normal) Child birth does not hurt! Well not like many ladies would have you believe. I know this as fact. I had three babies (9 pounds, 8 pounds 6 oz and 8 pounds 3 oz) and not a drop of any pain killer. Heck two of the kids were born with out even an IV inserted. People just have no point of reference.
Child birth feels much less painful than having a horse fall on you. Hurts a lot less that being drug through barbed wire. Hurts less than a bad gall bladder (which D2 had removed) AND hurts less than an ovarian cyst that is the size of a potato (also in her experience). The cool thing is that the discomfort stops when the child is out.
Woman have been having babies since creation without painkillers and drugs. The human race has prospered without spinal blocks. SURE I am very thankful that medications, doctors and C-sections are available. Sometimes, if things are not quite right, they are VERY necessary. A healthy woman with a normal delivery, on the other hand should not be in the "most horrible pain imaginable" that so many women want to claim.
Pregnancy is NOT an illness.