Well, this is how it seems to be playing out. Hubby knows a guy who will fix it for a reasonable price. he has actually worked on the jetta before.
The jetta is in awesome shape body-wise and everything else. there is not ONE spec of rust on it. It has 270 000 km (IDK what that is in mileage).
Anyhoo, diesel jetta guy (a guy we know who only works on volkswagon an saabs)has a transmission he can put in the car. Hubs will keep our transmission and rebuild it and then sell it back to mechanic dude.
OR, .... Hubby knows another guy who has a jetta, (older than the one we have now, but still running well) and he is selling it for 1300$. We could pick that up while hubby rebuilds the tranny we have now, so hubby can take his time to rebuild, and then when ds is old enough, we will have another jetta diesel for him to drive.
And we have also discussed setting up a savings envelope (since we hate banks) for a new car, should the need arise. don't know if I was paranoid, but the pickup was making weird noises today too when I drove it.