I would do what I am doing now on the acre I'm on....only more of it!
If I didn't have to work off my place, I would be incorporating more income producing aspects on my little farm dot. As it is, I am away at work all week, so everything I do here has to be easy and less time consuming.
I have my animal's feeding and care down to where it takes very little time each week to deal with their care. Gardens are the same....more cover crops, less weeds.
I have found that my free ranging animals don't cause a lot of wear and tear on the place and so any scars on the land are easily erased once I'm gone. Chickens, hair sheep and two dogs don't mess up an acre like, say, a cow or horse would.
I currently have on my one acre, besides the buildings and fenced gardens (2): 2 dogs that guard the flock of 33 chickens, 3 adult ewes, one lamb and one recent addition of a ram lamb~I will be selling one ewe ASAP, 2 cats, 1 beehive(and hope to have more), 15 very large apple trees, 2 large gardens that double as winter pens for sheep.
On a small space its all about stacking species and using different areas for multipurposes....like using the gardens as areas to keep sheep off the grass during the winter. This puts manure and urine where its needed, one can grow cover crops that can be grazed by the sheep, keeps all the mess of winter livestock areas on places that will be plowed and planted in the spring.
The orchard is grazed by sheep and chickens keep the bugs down and also forage along side the sheep. All the animals benefit from the apple drops and excess garden produce, the shade, and the shelter of the orchard.
If I had the time there would be so much more I could do with my little acre, so many areas that are under utilized right now. All it takes is imagination and time to complete and maintain the projects.
ETA: You don't really have to have the participation of your reluctant husband...its nice to have some man labor but you can keep all things scaled down to fit a woman, especially if you have the right tools.