k0xxx said:
Is music just a reflection of popular culture? Probably. I can't help but feel though, that negative lyrics serve to reinforce negative behavior. When you look at so much of today's music glorifying drugs, violence, and other destructive behavior, it makes you wonder where we are headed as a society.
YMMV
I think a more important factor than the music, is parents' reaction to it. Like most of us have mentioned, we grew up listening to some pretty bad stuff. Personally, I loved Nine Inch Nails, Jane's Addiction, and Guns & Roses. Not exactly positive music.... But my parents were there to be good role models & teach me how to make smart choices. As a result, the music was just something I listened to, not something I actually believed. I think a major problem nowadays is not the music, but the fact that many parents are pretty much absent from their kids' lives, except to buy them stuff when they want it. Or they're just absent working several jobs to make ends meet. Or they just want to be their kids' friend. If you don't have good role models in real life, your role models will become musicians, actors, reality TV stars, etc.