so we went to get the tire for the van today. when we got home, a second tire was flat on the van!!!!!!!!!!!

so instead of running back to town, and instead of putting on one tire, we're going to wait until we have the second tire and do both at once. Sure wish the second tire had gone flat before we left so we would have bought two!
i wanted to tell ya'll about some other things that happened this past week as well. I don't remember which night it was, but E and I both dreamed about the baby. I dreamed I had a baby girl by c-section with dark brown hair (I mean a head full of it!) and her face was red and scrunched up like she was about to cry. I was demanding the nurses put me in a rocker so I could hold her on my chest and rock her.
E said in his dream, I went into labor early and went so fast that they didn't get me to the hospital. I delivered at home, but somehow my doc was there too LOL He said I delivered normally, and the FIRST baby was a girl with dark brown hair, and the SECOND baby was a girl, too, but he couldn't tell me what she looked like, because he passed out
I thought it was funny.
then last Saturday, E and I had this total "moment" in the kitchen while I was forcing myself to make dinner. Forcing myself because I felt horrible and didn't want E to make dinner. E was standing beside me with coffee as I was cooking. Now, I don't want ya'll thinking he's a bad guy, but it's taken him a bit longer than me to adjust to the idea of another baby, especially one that was in no way shape or form planned for.
He just out of the blue touches my belly and says with a impish smile, "I see a bump." and the way he touched my belly was well, almost in reverence??? So I glanced at him and asked, "are you going to love this baby?" and he smiles at me and said, "Yes, I'm going to love this baby. And I better start working on my attitude about it now, huh?"
I was so stinking happy I could have cried!!!
We've both taken to referring to the baby as "she" and stubbornly refuse to think of "her" as anything but a "she". Hopefully at the ultrasound next month, if they tell us differently, hopefully we won't be too disappointed.