frustratedearthmother
Sustainability Master
Granted - the system is not perfect. I work with kids who are the poorest of the poor. We have a lot of single parent families...we have one mother in our program who works 3 part-time jobs- all minimum wage and still needs food stamps. There are days when she works around the clock for over 24 hours. She's proud that she has 3 jobs and it would break her heart if she couldn't put a bag of chips in her kids lunch.
We have another mother who is going to school in her late 30's...in fact we just hired her as our student worker. Minimum wage and a maximum of 19 hours a week and thankfully has another job (also minimum wage). She married young, has 4 kids (set of twins ) and her husband was killed riding his bicycle to his minimum wage job. Hit and run...no insurance, no family here to help them. One of the saddest things I've ever seen. Her daughter who is in our program got a pair of socks for Christmas.
Even if these folks KNOW healthy food is better for them - healthy foods are expensive. Can they grow a tomato plant? Maybe, but can they afford to buy the pot and the dirt and the plant? A large majority of the families I work with live in govt assisted housing...no place for a garden. They would be better off buying the tomato because it's a sure thing. Growing a plant is a gamble for all of us and they can't afford to throw that money down the drain if the plant doesn't grow.
There are definitely folks who would be better off not buying the potato chips, the candy and the soda! Heck, I shouldn't be either but I love my diet root beer, lol. We buy candy for DH's low blood sugar episodes. There are times when a package of Smarties saved him from a low blood sugar crash.
I work very closely with some of these people who are on assistance. I see their struggle every single day. I see the teenage girl who was thrilled to get a pair of socks for Christmas.
We are all entitled to our own beliefs about this. And there surely are folks who "work" the system. But, there is another side of the story and I see it every day.
Stepping down from this soapbox and going to check on my goats!
We have another mother who is going to school in her late 30's...in fact we just hired her as our student worker. Minimum wage and a maximum of 19 hours a week and thankfully has another job (also minimum wage). She married young, has 4 kids (set of twins ) and her husband was killed riding his bicycle to his minimum wage job. Hit and run...no insurance, no family here to help them. One of the saddest things I've ever seen. Her daughter who is in our program got a pair of socks for Christmas.
Even if these folks KNOW healthy food is better for them - healthy foods are expensive. Can they grow a tomato plant? Maybe, but can they afford to buy the pot and the dirt and the plant? A large majority of the families I work with live in govt assisted housing...no place for a garden. They would be better off buying the tomato because it's a sure thing. Growing a plant is a gamble for all of us and they can't afford to throw that money down the drain if the plant doesn't grow.
There are definitely folks who would be better off not buying the potato chips, the candy and the soda! Heck, I shouldn't be either but I love my diet root beer, lol. We buy candy for DH's low blood sugar episodes. There are times when a package of Smarties saved him from a low blood sugar crash.
I work very closely with some of these people who are on assistance. I see their struggle every single day. I see the teenage girl who was thrilled to get a pair of socks for Christmas.
We are all entitled to our own beliefs about this. And there surely are folks who "work" the system. But, there is another side of the story and I see it every day.
Stepping down from this soapbox and going to check on my goats!