My first wedding was truly the best wedding I've ever been to. I borrowed a dress, got married in the little church down the street, walked back to the reception in my parents' backyard, and the food was all made by family and friends. Open bar (Dad wouldn't invite people to his home and ask them to pay for drinks), we had 300 people there - it was a blast. We had a DJ, and a friend of mine took pictures, they were lovely. The cake came from a local bakery. The wedding cost, all told, about $1500. That was in 1978.
My second wedding (and my last!!) was just hubby and I and the JP on a bridge over Lake Chocoura up in NH - and cost $35. I am not one to spend a lot on weddings, it's about the marriage, to me, not the day.