Monterey, VA. Beautiful, small town feel with an artsy contingent of democrats from down out of Washington, D.C. The land is beautiful and fertile, not too far away from larger cities. Not sure about the job situation for your hubby's skills but the land and taxes are definitely cheaper than what you are paying now.
I would venture that anywhere in the country is going to give you some exposure to hicks....this is their native territory after all...but you can often find someone of similar values if you look hard enough.
I'm still looking where I live.......not been too successful around here.