Wannabefree...guess what I got in the mail today!?!?!?!?

[Wannabefree]

Thanks everyone. I think I'm going to politely insist I take them for a while...for hers and their own good. If they find a place where they can keep them I'll give them ack and call my losses. She's supposed to call me back tomorrow, so I will bring it up then. Hope it goes well....

 

[CheerioLounge]

id offer to "chicken sit" while she gets settled and she can have them back once shes found a new place, got settled in and you knwo there going to be safe.
you get to keep all eggs during the time they are with you...(if you want them for the incubator ect)
right now it seems like the biggest concern is they dont even realy know whatthere doing in life and they want to take all these chickens stress them out more and not even be ready for them atthe new place (if they can finda place that will let them have them)

once there re-settled you can try to bring up the owing you money part, mabe theres seomthign they can do in terms of a service, help you plant ect to make the money up...but trying to move with a bunch of chickens is insanity.

JINX! LOL! Great minds think alike

I think this is the route I'd take...

 

[Wannabefree]

Thanks Cheerio

Oh and Pinky..I really couldn't care less about the money other than that is why she is avoiding me :/ I give everything away What do I care about $50 unless it causes a friend to ignore me That hurts my feelings more than anything.

 

[Wannabefree]

I mean...she wouldn't even call me and ask for help because of that stupid money

 

[FarmerJamie]

I mean...she wouldn't even call me and ask for help because of that stupid money

Maybe she was embarrassed?

 

[pinkfox]

i understand that the money isnt the concern...
it realy buggs me though when someone would rather pretend you dont exist than say "hey look im having a rough time right now and cash is tight...mabe we can work things out?"

 

[CheerioLounge]

I mean...she wouldn't even call me and ask for help because of that stupid money

Maybe she was embarrassed?

That's what I was thinking...

 

[Wannabefree]

i understand that the money isnt the concern...
it realy buggs me though when someone would rather pretend you dont exist than say "hey look im having a rough time right now and cash is tight...mabe we can work things out?"

Yep.

FJ, she has asked me for help before and we helped her. Several times we have helped, gladly helped, and never made her feel like a mooch or embarassed her. IDK what her deal is.

 

[moolie]

I mean...she wouldn't even call me and ask for help because of that stupid money

Maybe she was embarrassed?

i understand that the money isnt the concern...
it realy buggs me though when someone would rather pretend you dont exist than say "hey look im having a rough time right now and cash is tight...mabe we can work things out?"

This is probably what's going on with her, been there and it's tough to admit weakness. Just be there for her and she'll realize what a good friend you are and that there was no need to cut you out of what was going on in her life. We all have our issues, and pride can be so difficult to get past. Plus money is huge between friends, whether real or imagined.

eta: this all sounds dumb now that we were posting at the same time

 

[Wannabefree]

I mean...she wouldn't even call me and ask for help because of that stupid money

Maybe she was embarrassed?

That's what I was thinking...

I don't think so. She is not easily embarassed. They lost their home because they have chosen not to pay their bill because the house is a heap. IDK why they haven't saved for a move, but they are terrible with money, so....IDK.