Well, I'll tell you where I'm at, and you can decide where we are on the spectrum.
I currently raise 80% of all our meat. Quail, rabbit, chicken (eggs and meat) ducks, (and soon to be lamb) and hubby hunts deer, turkey and fishes. All I buy is bacon, but that will change hopefully next year if we get a pig. (I used to buy pepperoni, but I am dabbling with a recipe right now). So, meat is taken care of. I garden, (not successfully the last two years, but, normally provide our summer veggies. I frequent local pick your own farms to stock up on the rest of the yearly supply. I trade with a neighbour for potatoes, and a neighbour a concession over supplies me with squash in trade for eggs. I can and freeze all of our harvests. I make 99% of all our food from scratch. I still depend on grocery stores, for basics like flour, spices, sugar and minimal produce, dairy. Soon we will have our own dairy supply, if the sheep work out. If not, we will get a miniature jersey.
We frequent second hand stores for most of our clothes (although I have a tween dd who is now getting into clothes, but she has her own money), we use reusable cloths instead of paper towels, I use reusable feminine products, we all use a deodorant crystal, and baking soda for toothpaste. We do not have town water connected to the house, we truck it in, so we conserve water use as much as possible. We contain rainwater for gardens and animals ( when not frozen). We keep the temperature between 55 and 60 F in the house, and are currently looking into installing a wood stove in our basement. I'm sure there is more , but I can't think of any right now.
Plans for the future--I hope to get to the point where I can make enough to go past breaking even with selling animals, I plan to expand my garden so that I am less dependant on the PYO farms, and I plan to set up an herb garden and plant some perennial plants like asparagus, strawberries, blueberries, raspberries. I plan on getting the pig. I plan on heating with wood. I plan on grocery store trips once a month as opposed to every two weeks. I plan on reducing our dependance on electric even more. Even farther down the ss road, I plan on making my own soap, more cheese, and would like to venture into bees, and training my one horse to pull a cart so that we might actually be able to work with him.
I think we are doing great where we are. Hubby has a job that he loves, and we have house payments and taxes , so that's a good thing. I have not had to work since my eldest was born, 13 years. ( but did get a job twice out of boredom)
We started out on this path due to the fact that hubby and I decided that I would stay at home with our son, and money was tight. What started out as a journey into frugality, has blossomed into a desire to do so much more, fuelled by the time that we had some land up north where we lived off grid, (or no grid) for our vacation/free time and loved it.