cknmom
Almost Self-Reliant
Our daughter is being sent back to Afghanistan after coming back here during her deployment to deal with a former boyfriend(father of her two youngest) and a divorce with her husband(kids don't EVER listen!!!)
We have all three kids right now, but a court just ruled that the non- costodial parent gets the kids if the custodial parent gets deployed.
This jerk is on unemployment, alligations of neglect and child abuse, mental, physical, sexual, emotional, he has been stealing my daughter's son's ss# and birth certificate, her ss# trying to get the father of her son involved, when he hasn't ever wanted to be( I know, not my values!)
DH and I were hoping to keep the kids while she was deployed, all except for the Christmas visitation which we could not stop.
I am so worried about these little girls ages 3 and 4, I don't want to put them in harms way but have no legal choice.
We will be able to keep our grandson here with us, but I can't sleep knowing what we are sending our little grand daughters into.
It will only be for 6 months, but soooo much can happen in that amount of time. I know how hard it will be for me to hand the kids over to this A**H**E, I can't even imagine if I was in another country worrying about my young children, and that I signed up for this job to make their life/future better.
Sorry about going on like this, I am so upset that the courts won't listen, this JERK was supposed to be paying a measly $400.00 a month since Sept. and has paid $186.00!! He is laid off, getting unemployment, and his girlfriend is working( as what, I don't know) But he assured the judge that he could take care of the girls(even though he can't pay child support)
She will have to pay him almost $600.00 a month, which is not the point, they are worth many times over, it's the point that he won't pay and he won't take proper care of the children and she HAS to pay and have virtually no contact with the girls(we've been through this before)
He DEMANDS everything, but will give NOTHING!! Our daughter leaves the 28th, since we were expecting to not have them here for Christmas we planned things with relatives who they don't know for the Thanksgiving holidays, since the court orders say he gets them on or around the date she leaves, he is demanding that he gets them on the 28th!! We were planing to be gone longer than that. He says if he doesn't get them then, he will put out an Amber Alert(he is too stupid to realize that that is not HIS choice!)
and charge us with kidnapping!! I get sooooo frazzeled even thinking of this JERK, he is so stupid that him and his girlfriend contacted our grandson's father to get him to help them get the girls and they would help him get his son(that he hasn't ever been interested in)
They were stupid enough to send these email correspnsances to DD's lawyer! There is possible identity theft charges and conspiracy. I would like to see them all in jail for a very long time(unfortunately, I know they will not ever serve a day).
They use these children like pawns to get revenge, all we want to do is protect them. All DD wanted to do was to give her children a better future and help protect and defend our wonderful country. Now she doesn't even have the respect of a lot of our country, let alone the appreciation(??).
I am so upset right now and at a loss of what to do except cry, which does no good whatsoever!
Thank you all for letting me vent, my whole family is upset and not having any options but to let this JERK have his way.
Monica
We have all three kids right now, but a court just ruled that the non- costodial parent gets the kids if the custodial parent gets deployed.
This jerk is on unemployment, alligations of neglect and child abuse, mental, physical, sexual, emotional, he has been stealing my daughter's son's ss# and birth certificate, her ss# trying to get the father of her son involved, when he hasn't ever wanted to be( I know, not my values!)
DH and I were hoping to keep the kids while she was deployed, all except for the Christmas visitation which we could not stop.
I am so worried about these little girls ages 3 and 4, I don't want to put them in harms way but have no legal choice.
We will be able to keep our grandson here with us, but I can't sleep knowing what we are sending our little grand daughters into.
It will only be for 6 months, but soooo much can happen in that amount of time. I know how hard it will be for me to hand the kids over to this A**H**E, I can't even imagine if I was in another country worrying about my young children, and that I signed up for this job to make their life/future better.
Sorry about going on like this, I am so upset that the courts won't listen, this JERK was supposed to be paying a measly $400.00 a month since Sept. and has paid $186.00!! He is laid off, getting unemployment, and his girlfriend is working( as what, I don't know) But he assured the judge that he could take care of the girls(even though he can't pay child support)
She will have to pay him almost $600.00 a month, which is not the point, they are worth many times over, it's the point that he won't pay and he won't take proper care of the children and she HAS to pay and have virtually no contact with the girls(we've been through this before)
He DEMANDS everything, but will give NOTHING!! Our daughter leaves the 28th, since we were expecting to not have them here for Christmas we planned things with relatives who they don't know for the Thanksgiving holidays, since the court orders say he gets them on or around the date she leaves, he is demanding that he gets them on the 28th!! We were planing to be gone longer than that. He says if he doesn't get them then, he will put out an Amber Alert(he is too stupid to realize that that is not HIS choice!)
and charge us with kidnapping!! I get sooooo frazzeled even thinking of this JERK, he is so stupid that him and his girlfriend contacted our grandson's father to get him to help them get the girls and they would help him get his son(that he hasn't ever been interested in)
They were stupid enough to send these email correspnsances to DD's lawyer! There is possible identity theft charges and conspiracy. I would like to see them all in jail for a very long time(unfortunately, I know they will not ever serve a day).
They use these children like pawns to get revenge, all we want to do is protect them. All DD wanted to do was to give her children a better future and help protect and defend our wonderful country. Now she doesn't even have the respect of a lot of our country, let alone the appreciation(??).
I am so upset right now and at a loss of what to do except cry, which does no good whatsoever!
Thank you all for letting me vent, my whole family is upset and not having any options but to let this JERK have his way.
Monica