Boy when it rains it pours. I have an elderly aunt who has no children. She is my mothers only living sister and we are very close.
About a week before my mother had her stroke my aunt fell and broke her hip. The original plan was for my aunt to move in with my mom. After mom had her stroke that was not an option so my aunt was in a major bind with no where to go. I work and had my hands full with my mom. One of my cousins showed up out of nowhere and offered my aunt a place with him and his wife. I balked at this idea and told my aunt she would be better off going to an assisted living facility until we could get things settled down between her, and my mom. (There was just so much going on I really did not have the mental capacity to think straight at that time). Any way, she did not want to do that. This cousin that showed up is one I had never met. None of the family ever had much to do with that part of the family because they were dangerous people. Any way she moved in with him, then purchased a mobile home and set it on his property. Now he has borrowed large amounts of money (which he pretty much demanded from my aunt and she felt obligated to give him) and he has not paid a penny back. He approached her again a few weeks ago for another large loan. She told him she did not have the money. He called her a liar and threatened her. He has broke into her house when she was gone and read her will. He is angry because she has left everything to my mother. Now she thinks she in in danger. I can't move her in with me because I don't have room. I would actually have to add on to the house which would take months. I have been on the phone all day trying to find someone that can break down her mobile home and move it this week. Its suppose to start raining again next week. She won't leave without the mobile home. (Her mental capaticity is not much better than mine sometimes.)
I am very frustrated today. Can you tell.