way back i played some of the Squad Leader type games with a BIL but that didn't last too long as he ended up becoming an ex-BIL. it was fun while it lasted.
after that not much gaming until college and a group of us were playing Diplomacy and a few other games until people got too mad at each other to play any more. then another group got together for playing Rune Quest and that was fun and it stayed together until a lot of the people graduated and moved on.
i wanted to go back and play Rogue (an old game from the 80s that we could play in the computer lab) again and also to see Rog-O-Matic run (the lab wouldn't let us run that one because it could use too many resources) against Rogue so i did go out and find those and then had fun messing with those for years until i got too busy with other things and had to leave it aside. in the past few weeks someone has been asking questions and sending me fixes to bring the code up to more modern standards, but while we got Rog-O-Matic done without too many issues, his initial attempt for Rogue was too many changes and the interface to Rog-O-Matic is very brittle so that's gotta be different than what he did for it to work very well because i don't have the time to go back and figure out yet another version of Rogue... once was enough.
my favorite game for a while was Railroad Tycoon and then i got into playing Simutrans or some name like that, it's been a long long time since i've even looked at that and another game i played a lot on the computer for a while was Battle for Wesnoth. i've not looked at that for years now too because i decided i should learn Python and do some other things instead and that's been plenty enough for me.
it's hard to find people who are compatible who want to do this kind of gaming.
my nephew and one of my brothers are both into on-line games but i haven't gotten into those (fast twitch shooter type games don't appeal to me). i like turn-based games where you can have some time and also because i do get interrupted here quite often so there's no real way i can do anything that requires a lot of dedicated and uninterrupted blocks of time.
good luck, i hope some of them will reach good hands.