I just found your thread. So a very belated congats on finding your place and making the move. Also, congrats on the pregnancy.
I can so relate to the house buying trials, we bought a 25 acre homestead zoned ag. Our problem was getting an acceptable insurance policy on the ag land, that our mortgage company would accept for a loan for a second home. Something about they wouldn't loan on an ag place because THEY SAID we would rely on the money we made off the land to pay our mortgage, even though our combined income was more than paid for both mortgages. Our realtor and mortgage broker couldn't figure out what the issue was, but we got it worked out. DH moved to Wisconsin Jan 1st, found the house and made an offer the second day it was listed, we closed on it in April, then DH lived in WI in the new place by himself until our house in Wyoming sold at the end of August. two mortgages meant 2 jobs, so I had to stay out there.