Hey, stranger! I was just wondering how you were doing! Miss hearing from you.
It took me longer to hang out the clothes than I'd expected. And, I still had to load the cart. So, I was late getting to the farm, which meant I was late for Bible study. Then I found out we had choir practice, and I didn't have my music w/me. So I had to share w/someone else.
Get back to the farm, get Stormy fed, bag feed and start cleaning the field. I was able to get everything new cleaned up as well as some of the stuff that was frozen. I could have fit more in the cart, but wasn't sure how well I'd be able to pull it if it was completely full-it's OK on flat ground, but I knew there would be some ruts where I needed to go. Get in the back and found out that RU's horses had once again broken thru the electric to get to the hay-and they had hay out. So I dumped the cart, then chased the horses out and fixed the fence. I honestly don't think the electric is working but had no time to check it out. I don't think RU owns a fence tester, but I do. And, since I don't want to be constantly chasing the horses out of there, I'm going to have to find the time after Christmas to check it all out.
Finally get back up to my field. Go to lock up my chickens. I forgot to close the gate from my area behind me, so the chickens got into the parking area. Well, apparently someone moved the gate cuz my pullet couldn't figure out how to get back in. And, 2 of my hens have apparently lost their hearing. Everyone else came in. But my pullet was running up and down along the fence trying to get in thru the fence. RU has a semi trailer body that sits parallel to my field. When my chickens get into the parking area, going under that is one of their favorite places to hang out. And they didn't want to move! So, I had to chase the pullet in, then figure out a way to get the hens out from under the trailer. I used my manure fork.
By the time I got home, it was late. And, I couldn't get down the street! They were doing some work and had equipment and trucks on both sides of the street! They had to move stuff so I could get to my house. For lunch, I had a hash brown patty. The wood was still frozen in place, so I took my splitting wedge and used the backside of it to knock the stuff loose. Got everything out of the back, and put some of that wood and some of the dry stuff I had in the wood holder. Basically I just got enough in for the night.
Fed the goats, then grabbed a rake and started to rake. I had 7 feed bags. They're now full of leaves and are in the back of my truck. Then I started to clean up around the door. While I was doing that, hubby got home. I figured we'd be leaving right away. Nope, he had to sit down and relax for a bit. Then he tells me that someone gave him a gift card to a liquor store and it's near one of the malls in the area and he wants to go there. I ask him if it has an expiration date. When he said no, I suggested that he go another day. Nope, he had to go then. I knew what the traffic was going to be like if we had gone the way he wanted to. I finally had to get on Mapquest, and show him the way I had in mind to get there. We did have stop and go traffic for maybe 2 miles, but it wasn't bad. I hate to think of what the traffic would have been like if we had gone his way.
We get there and he goes in while I wait in the car. I wanted to go back the way we came to get to the mall area. He wanted to go a different way. I knew the traffic would be horrendous going this way, and I was right. It wasn't until we got almost all the way down that I found out why he wanted to go this way. We were supposed to be going out to eat. And he wanted to go to this one pizzeria/bar. If I had known he wanted to go there, I would have told him no. I've eaten there B4, and there is almost NOTHING on the menu that I'll eat. I ended up w/a little bowl of vegetable soup and a cup of coffee. (It wasn't enough. I had to come home and find something to eat.) He ate nothing, but had a couple of drinks.
I don't know if they mixed their decaf and regular coffee or what, but I started getting vertigo attacks. And I feel the way I do when I accidentally get caffeine. Whenever we go out, he always wants to sit at the bar. W/the way I was feeling, sitting on a bar stool was NOT a good idea. So I told him I was going to go and wait in the car. I figured he'd be right out. Nope, there were some guys in there that he knew, and one of them bought him a beer. I sat in the car for almost 20 minutes B4 he came out.
It's now 8:00 and we've done NOTHING. We go in Wally World and while I would have liked to have looked more, I found a couple of things I wanted to get. We check out and go to a local music store. Our son, our DD's boyfriend went in w/us on getting our DD an electric piano. This is a nice one since it has a full key board. She plays by ear, but wants to learn how to play for real. So I wanted to get her some books. I knew what I needed to look for, hubby doesn't-he doesn't play. The guy shows me where the books are. I find a set of 3 lesson books for adults as well as a couple of books of fingering exercises. Hubby is arguing w/me the whole time over what I'm getting. The guy that worked there basically told him that it was a good choice.
We finally leave-20 minutes after their closing time. We're driving home. I can't seem to get him to understand that how he drives-especially at night and when I'm feeling dizzy can trigger vertigo attacks. I was glad when we got off the major road and got on a back road. Then he wants to know if it's possible to get together to get a trailer load of firewood on Saturday. I've gotten wood in the trailer B4. It takes quite a bit of time to load it. Then, it's hard to jack the trailer up enough to unhook it from the truck. On top of that, I have some stuff in there and I'm bringing the roosters home tomorrow. If I don't finish butchering them, I plan on putting them in the trailer until I can. He starts to argue w/me. He doesn't want me to butcher them. He wants me to just get rid of them. I finally told him that I didn't want to discuss it any longer.
I'm exhausted, and didn't get my list all done. I didn't do the dishes. And work on the bedroom consisted of changing the sheets on the bed. If something doesn't change soon, I think I'm going to have to leave. If nothing else, it will hopefully give him a wake up call.