I would PRAISE the heck out of the desire to help garden! In fact, let DH start the plants. Just like children, let him own them.

Maybe he is considering what he can do when he retires.

I believe that is a big part of it! Maybe part of it is that he sees me struggling with this foot and wants to find something that he can help with. I dunno...but whatever kind of help will be welcomed for sure! Glad you got your frozen pipe UNfrozen!
I got up to 8 degrees this morning. I layered ALL my layers right over my work clothes.
I used to have a big ol pair of overalls that I'd slip over my work clothes and go out and feed in before work. Could only do that when the weather was cool or I'd sweat all over my clothes and go to work smelling like goat/horse/pig/or chicken, lol!
FEM, stop settling for "getting by" right NOW! Especially if you are looking at retirement
Looking at retirement is WHY I'm settling for getting by, lol. I'd like to be able to afford to retire! But, I will definitely get the bathroom remodeled next - it's an investment in my house and who knows if I may have to sell that house someday.
And, the barnyard re-do may happen WHEN I retire and will have the time to do it ourselves. Or maybe some spring break I'll get a bunch of my students out there and tackle it sooner rather than later. With the tractor we should be able to handle the work more easily. However, if it continues to be nothing but wet here I may just rethink everything and start raising goldfish or something!!
In the last three or four years we have done a few things:
We added a cover to our back porch a couple years ago - best thing we ever did! We also put in a new septic system, a new well pump and a new driveway to the back pasture AND a new barn. So...we are having some accomplishments. I just "witch and bine" about spending money no matter WHAT its spent on, lol.
Started Physical Therapy on my stupid foot yesterday. Got told a whole bunch of things I didn't want to hear...grrrrr! But, he thinks there's hope for me! Yay! Love my Therapist! He's the same guy that fixed my shoulder a couple summers ago. (plus he's pretty nice eye candy! This ol' gal ain't dead yet!)

