Good point! We talked about this all day today. She loves all the ideas...especially the pizza idea. That kid has a hollow leg, I swear!miss_thenorth said:My dd (13) just brought up a very valid point. What does Sam want to do? I know my dd would die if I planned a tea (no offense) or anything like that. she would just want to have a fire and a sleepover, bbq, etc. have things available if there is a lull, but other than that, leave it to the girls-they will take their own spin on it.