Back from our first Cub Scout Pack meeting of the year. Controlled chaos at its best!!! The boys who went to camp received their various patches and pins and belt loops and I very proudly received my Polar Bear patch along with them for jumping in the lake at 6am each morning. Of course the water was about 70 degrees so it was more of a grizzly bear swim.......
My guys were all really psyched to get their stuff and for the most part are excited to start the year. One seemed really kind of bleh so I tried talking to him. He was just in a mood so I let it go. His mom shared later that her MIL, with whom they've been living since moving here, has told them they have to move out. She has no idea what they're going to do. She works two jobs, DH is on disability..... I just can't even fathom what she's going through. Another mom is being difficult as always. She refuses to play by the "rules" and rubs our noses in it. Her sons don't have all the parts of their uniform and she does nothing to remedy that, and it isn't an issue of money. He's earned most of his patches and she refuses to sew a single thing on his shirt. So he stands up there with half the buttons missing from his uniform looking embarassed and she just laughs and says it toughens him up. Then she tells me I can't mark him off for not wearing his full uniform because she hasn't gotten him everything yet. "You can't count it against him if he doesn't have it yet!" Uh... you had the whole summer to get it and every one else does, so yeah I can! At least that's what I say to myself. To her I say, he doesn't have his belt on. She says, he doesn't have belt loops on his shorts. And I say, yes, I know, and he's supposed to. So she snips, well it's not like it matters, they don't get anything for it. I grin and say, yes they do. They only get marked for full attendance if they're in full uniform, like every other year you've been here, so once again your boys will not be receiving attendance bars per Pack rules. Well, I was quite so snotty about it but darn it she was pushing my buttons. She thinks it doesn't bother her boys but I can see that it does. If she doesn't care about the recognition, fine, but why would you embarass your kids that way just because you take such pleasure in not playing by the book. Scouts isn't for everyone and I can see that some might not agree with the rigidity of our leaders' decisions. But she's been with this Pack for 2 years like I have and has alienated pretty much every adult except me and she's doing a good job of it at this point. I really do enjoy the boys and being their leader. But moments like this make me very very tired..... Two more years and DS is off to Boy Scouts. If he chooses to continue. I had kind of thought he'd bow out but yesterday out of the blue he said he really wanted to go on to be a Boy Scout. I think it was because DH showed him some achievement he'd gotten 400 million years ago when he was a Scout. He's all motivated to earn stuff, more than ever before, so I guess we'd better get to work!
MY Woodchuck cider is calling me. That and my pillowzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz It was a long hot day at the HS. Had to be near 90 inside our office. No air moving at all and HUMID. It was our first full MOnday seeing students and mostly it went well. My 1st period student was absent and my last period student was a PITA. He's the one kid I had to have removed from the room by Security last year. He was miserable today but still better than last year. Not fun. Need to sit down with the supervisor to come up with a plan how to deal with him. Because I'll be d@mned if I'm going to be spoken to the way he speaks to me without there being some sort of consequence. i did find that once he was working and if it wasn't too challenging he was better. But if the work is too hard or too easy he started mouthing off.
So I was thinking about the date. Sept. 26. 24 years ago today I took my comprehensive exams to receive my Master's Degree. 24 years. I'm 48. That's half my life. And I still haven't completed the last few steps to get my certification. sobering....