Why is this conversation so animated? It's a book, for heaven's sake--read it or not as you choose.
Violence is all around us, whether it be described by the Bible or the action of smashing a mosquito. It is a part of the life-and-death struggle we all engage in every day when we wake up alive. Yup, modern society protects us from all kinds of violence, yet exposes us to more fabricated violence through various types of media. That's life as we know it today.
FWIW my girls (14 and 16) both read all 3 books long before there was any talk of a movie and they are looking forward to seeing the movie. I read both the first and second books yesterday (we don't own the third so I have requested it from the library) to find out what all the hype in this thread is about. Simple writing and sentence structure, well-described characters who evolve over time with the aid of flashbacks, good plot, nice twists, pretty classic tale with the caveat that each of the first books ends with a bit of a cliffhanger--truly meant to be a trilogy. I understand that the author wrote them after watching
The Amazing Race on tv and then flipping over to a channel that was showing news footage of the Iraq war and then imagined children in a world that included both.
I don't for one moment believe that people who choose to read a book, or see a popular movie, are being guided by unseen evil forces. We live in a hype society, people do what others do--but the perceived "peer pressure" out there is no different than what it was in the 80s, the 60s, or the 40s (and I'm sure down through time).
My girls also read Jane Austen, Mark Twain, and Jules Verne--in some cases when their friends were also reading those authors--were there demons involved then as well? Good grief.
And yup, along the way they have loved the Harry Potter books, started reading them in second grade. And they read the Percy Jackson books when their friends got into those. I guess my kids are demon-possessed, rather than merely voracious readers.
My kids have always been surrounded by literature, always been read to--just as hubs and I were as children. We all read, rabidly. Fiction, non-fiction, magazines, newspapers--whatever. I'd far rather that my kids get their kicks from a book that forces their minds to imagine the characters being described, than sit for hours and hours in front of a tv or video game. And if there's a movie made now and again based on one of those books or a series, it just allows them to escape for a couple of hours into someone else's fantasy world, and then come home and complain about how the movie makers didn't understand the story/characters/etc.
If you want to raise children to be thinking adults, they should read. And play, and imagine, and write, and draw, and dance. And learn the difference between what is imagined and what is real. My kids have known since before they started school that there is a difference between reality and a story, and they revel in a good book.