FarmerChick said:
do you need this health insurance? cause ONE major reason for working is health insurance. If you don't need that...and the rest is strictly financial...then there is ways to get out from under the financial part. of course it means unloading the car if necessary etc.
It will all fall into place for you!
I am seriously going to have to have that talk with them soon. See, here's the thing about the insurance. Mr. C just recently qualified for Medicare, so he's out. His son, Mr. P is young and in good health and has private insurance that Mr. C pays for (Mr. P pays for his own wife and kids.) The reason the insurance came up is because Ms. N (Mr. C's wife) needs insurance. She just retired about a year ago. SHe's been on COBRA for the last year. As of December 31, that COBRA will run out.
Mr. C had put her on our payroll once she retired so that he could create a small group health plan ince her COBRA ran out. (They are high risk and no one will sell her insurance as an individual... not insurance that covers anything, I mean.) We have been struggling, as a company, to figure this out for about two years. We have yet to figure out a way for it to be affordable.
Last year, when we were first inquiring about it, an agent told Mr. C that he could get a group of one person and insurance for just Ms. N. But now, apparently they have changed their minds. They want 2/3 of the people working in the office (which only leave me & Ms. N) to accept the coverage before they will write a group policy.
THAT is what led Mr. C to ask me to figure out how much I could afford to contribute to my own insurance. He said, either I could pay half and keep the coverage or he would pay the whole thing for a couple of months, then he'd be able to cancel my coverage and keep his wife covered.
I don't blame him that he doesn't pay for my insurance. The price is ridiculous. It would be much much cheaper for me to buy insurance in the private market *if I could get it* than it would be for him to do a small group. If I could get insurance in the private market, he would pay for it. (He's offered to do this before.)
Now, the MAIN reason I don't want him to write a small group is because, being high risk, I'm really afraid that once they start inquiring into my health history, his group price is going to go up way higher than what they quoted him to begin with. That's why I don't even want them to start asking.
Now... as far as me needing insurance or not. Well, I really wish I could get it. And I think that's possibly a cause I will be martyred for. (that is dark humor, btw) I think it's wrong that medical care and medical insurance have gotten so prohibitively expensive for working class people. My husband & I both work very hard and we don't live frivolously. I guess I'll just suffer before I'll pay 2 or 3 times as much for coverage because someone has arbitrarily decided I'm not worth it. So, screw 'em. Ya know?
But that's not Mr. C's fault. Only thing is, I heard him talking to Ms. N this morning about what she was going to do about HER insurance. It upsets me to know that I am in the middle of a personal problem for THEM and I don't want them to think I'm just being stubborn about joining their flippin' group.
Cassandra