Thoughts on Bleach:
I don't like bleach. I used to love bleach (I have a little OCD about bacteria but I am doing better managing that) but several years now I don't use it - or at least almost never. I have had the same bottle of bleach sitting outside by the washer for a couple of years now.
Fastforward to yesterday. I won some gift cards to FamousFootwear. This is a big deal. It means my sons get new shoes. (something that doesn't happen as often as I would like) I am careful with my boys feet but still they have stinky, stinky feet. We wash their feet every night and I try to keep the shoes off their feet as much as possible but of course they have to wear them at school etc. So this means I don't want to transfer that stink to the new shoes.
I decided last night that we would wash their feet and then we would soak them in bleach water.
Husband is washing Amarante's feet and I have my back to him standing in front of the fridge. And suddenly something splashed up all over me. I guess he put the lid on the bottle but then he lifted the bleach bottle by the cap. It wasn't attached correctly and the bottle dropped to the floor shooting bleach up onto EVERYTHING. It liberally sprinkled my hair, my back, my jeans. Husband had large circular wet spots all over him. The counters are splashed, the cupboards, the walls, my APRON, and best of all...the bottle was old and brittle and it broke open on the bottom so bleach is rolling out across the floor.
I guess I kind of shrieked and then we started stripping as fast as possible. But I could already see the spots fading on my jeans. I went out the back door (where the washer is) in undies and bra (probably scared the neighbors to death) and started stuffing our clothes in. Husband did his best mopping up and wiping down. And then I went and poured vinegar in my hair to try to stop the bleach.
Folks this was a shining moment for me. I didn't yell, or accuse or point a finger or glare or otherwise make him feel stupid. And yes, I really wanted to. I know it isn't a big deal to most people but he and I each were wearing our good clothes. And no, I don't have the money to go buy a new pair of jeans. So, at the end of it all...I am proud of myself. Being kind and understanding doesn't come as easily to me as it does to some. I am naturally more of the "let me tell you how stupid that was" kinda girl. So yeah, I did good.