Yeah, I've been there, done that also. I "helped" a co worker plant a modest garden... a couple tomato, cukes and some lettuce. She was more than willing to watch me do the work. When I encouraged her to get her hands dirty, her response, "I'd better not. I'm not smart enough." Later, when the tomatoes started setting fruit, she would laugh at how her dtr pulled the "little green balls" to throw around in the yard.
For the past 2 years, I've offered to teach basic gardening or hay bale gardening to any one who wanted to learn. This last fall, I offered to teach canning. In the 2 years, I've only had one person follow through to learn how to start a garden.
But, I'm convinced that there is a way to effectively mentor folks to teach them the joy of taking care of their needs, instead of letting the government do everything for them. Not sure I know what that way is... Perhaps requiring work to earn the resources. Similar to the Habitat for Humanity program.
2 Thessalonians 3:10 For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat.