The Story of Rossi
Rossi's story is really about the goodness of certain people. I'll begin by saying that Rossi's story is sad, but showed me how God in his wisdom makes choices that break the heart but strengthen the soul.
While we were fostering with the all-breed dog rescue, we mostly took animals chosen from the humane society. A very nice lady I'll call A would choose many of them, with different foster folk such as ourselves in mind.
She started telling us about an older rottie/aussie mix that was at the humane, where her name was "Sugar". She was very sad and had been there quite a while. At our new humane society nice dogs have longer to find homes than they used to. In any event, Rossi was a favorite, all the staff loved her. But they were so worried about her sadness. She had come in to the HS with another dog, due to "family hardship" and when the other dog was adopted, Rossi became unconsoleable. She whined and even howled daily in her kennel. Being without the other dog was very hard for her.
So A went to go pick her up....but she was adopted! A few days passed, and A was letting us know that Rossi had been returned. We were sorry her adoption did not work out but took her at that point. She had a bladder infection and was probably returned because she temporarily leaked urine, which was an easy issue to deal with for us.
Rossi was an easy one to "settle in". Very calm and loving girl, she just wanted to be with people and other dogs and immediately brightened up when she was at our house. We took some nice photos of her and began calling her Rossi. I do have tons of photos of her but my dealie-bobber on here is full so I can't really post more.
After she was listed on the internet for awhile, we noticed a little limp. She had a bad tooth, so we took her in to have it pulled and checked the limp at the same time. Since Rossi was large, five and a rescue dog, we did not x-ray and the doctor proclaimed it was most likely just a touch of arthritis. She recovered from the extraction nicely and still had just a tiny limp. We put her on a little pain medication and she seemed better.
Fast forward a month or so, and we recieve a letter from a family. They had fallen in love with a dog at the humane society who was very lonely when her friend left and whose name was Sugar. They had gone back to adopt her and she was gone. When they returned to the HS again to search for the right dog, they heard that Sugar had gone to my group, so they were still looking for her and wondered if "Rossi" was her? They had recently lost their life long dog friend who was her same mix and she touched their heart.
Well I immediately worked on their application and approved them to adopt....they were wonderful and even went to a vet clinic where I had worked in the past so I knew their dog doctor. They checked out wonderfully and they soon took Rossi home.
She fit in beautifully and this family was wonderful about sharing weekly progress notes with me. I really bonded with her new owners and enjoyed their correspondence. They even tried to find her "friend" dog that had been adopted elsewhere, but she was very happy with that family and did not need the other dog anymore. They did note her starting to whine about the limp.
They related one month later, however, that the vet discovered that the "limp" was osteosarcoma, a devastating cancer in dogs. They immediately plunged into cancer treatment and things that would alleviate her pain and extend her life, but she went quickly.
I was distraught. How could I have sent this limping dog to a home? Why had I insisted on the tooth being dealt with but not the x-ray for the limp? So much pain for this family could have been avoided if I had been more observant. I was quite unhappy with myself and did not take a new foster for awhile. I wondered if going deaf was making me unfit anymore for doing this kind of stuff. Did I miss her whining? I felt I should have put Rossi down myself and spared the family all that pain. I was already sad whether she was at my house or not.
But after she was put down the family who adopted Rossi did not feel upset about that shortness of time. Through my correspondence with the family, I came to learn something. They were just so happy to have known her. They would not have traded that time with her for anything. While they did not want her to die so quickly (two months after adoption), they were pleased they were able to offer her the latest advances in medical care for cancer for her last days. They wanted to ease her passing from this world into the next. They wanted to make sure the howling dog from the humane society never howled again. Helping her made them feel complete.
A few months later they let me know they had adopted a new dog.....again an older one, again with health problems. It was their "mission"....just like I have mine. They came to donate Rossi's things to me so that I could use them for other foster dogs as their new dog was much smaller. The owner gave me a giant hug as she was leaving and I again apologized for not knowing Rossi had cancer and thanked her for taking such good care of her anyhow.
She told me no.....she thanked ME for giving her the opportunity to know Rossi.
I knew then that I had done exactly what God had wanted me to do. That lady needed a purpose and mission as much as I do.....and He did not let me choose what I thought was "right" because in the long run, it would not have been what He intended her purpose to be.
Rossi had one final job to do in her last two months of life and she ended her time exactly when the job was done.