I didn't mean to step out for the rest of Eccl, but ... to be honest ... some of it is hard to focus on just now in my life. I needed to be in other parts of Scripture and work on my faith, so I hope y'all won't mind. Still, I see when I do pop in that there have been all kinds of interesting discussions I have missed. I shoulda made this thread a priority.
I'm glad 1 John is the next book. It's one of my favorites. Last time I was here, the suggestions were creation and Revelation, both of which are fascinating but ... Revelation especially would take FOREVER to really get into it, and tends to bring out differences of opinion.
I'm rather of the opinion that we would do well to study it, but that much of it is veiled for a reason, and that it will be clearer when it is time. Must admit, it's BEEN becoming clearer to me ...
Anyway, 1 John is good.

Some of my favorite passages in there. Almost as good as the Gospel of John.

I'm looking forward to it.
I haven't caught up on the ashamed of Jesus part? If it's about witnessing ... well ... I tend to be one that would RATHER live my life before people. If and when they notice a difference, and want to know about it, they will ask me (and they do). I find I'm a lot better just answering direct questions and talking to people about things they want to know, rather than going out and trying to evangelize. I just think, for me, it needs to be someone God is already working on. No point in me trying to force anyone ... I don't think it can be done. But God will draw them, and if they see something in me that makes them want to know more about my own relationship with God, I'm happy to help.
One particular, very dear friend has been searching for almost ten years now, and questioning me. I remember one day being in a very packed house with her neighbors and acquaintances, one or two of whom were kind of giving nodding approval to the idea of God in general, but none of whom were Christians and a few of whom were very antagonistic, and I felt like I was really put on the spot when ALL of them wanted to "question" me, LOL. I was a fairly new believer at the time too. But overall, I think it went well.
I don't try to convince anyone. I just have my experience, and if they want to know about it, I'm happy to share. If something I say can make an impact, then may God let that happen, and let HIM work on them. But as I said, it's really more of a lifestyle thing with me. It takes a LOT of invested time, none of those 5-minute speeches given on street corners, and it is ALL about being real and letting people really get to know that about me, but ... I just think that is how God works with me.