
Hello I was reading the thread and decided to give my two cents.
Thankfulness is a very fine quality to cultivate as a Christian it helps to shape our personalities, but prayer can be used not only to petition God for our needs, but also to have a personal relationship with God.( see Philipians 4:6,7)
One of the ways to do this would be to study what Jesus taught us about prayer in the Bible. Jesus already knew what his Father's will was, but he prayed to God with tears and sweating blood so that He would have the strength to carry out His Father's Will. (see Luke 22:41-44)
Jesus taught us how to pray and what to pray for, Matthew 6:9-13 (with commentary added)
YOU must pray, then, this way:
Our Father in the heavens, let your name be sanctified."
( What name? see Psalms 83:18) *
Let your kingdom come. (What is God's Kingdom? This is a real Government with Jesus as the "King" see Daniel 2:44)
"Let your will take place, as in heaven, also upon earth. ( Very soon now this part of the "Lords prayer" will be fulfilled. see Mattew 24:14, 5:5, Revelation 12:7-12 , and 16:16.)
"Give us today our bread for this day; and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors."
(Our needs come in 4th in importance in this prayer, the previous 3 requests are going to provide salvation for all human kind when they are fufilled. )
"And do not bring us into temptation, but deliver us from the wicked one." ( This is the one that I try my best to include everyday.)
After fulfilling what is important to Jesus to pray for, I usually start with of all of my Relatives and Friends who are sick, and also the ones that have material needs and so forth. We must pray in harmony with God's will and also pray when we make important decisions in our life. Prayer is not the same as a wishing well or a letter to Santa.

In order for our prayers to be heard we must pray with an unselfish, and humble heart, (see 1Kings chapter 8 Solomon's dedication of the first temple) and accept the answer to our prayers even if the answer is NO!
Bible books that emphasis Prayer : 1 Kings, Luke, 1 and 2 Thessalonians.
*P.S. Off Topic, there is an exciting new translation just released the KJV Divine Name Bible where the Divine name is restored from where it was removed by the translators in the 1600's. I will post a link if I can find it again.
Great topic ! Thanks, OS'N'S