Quail_Antwerp
Cold is on the Right, Hot is on The Left
So I was supposed to be building a raised bed today for my carrots, but that was stopped before it even began.
DH and I had agreed on spot for my first raised bed yesterday. Well, today he's out there tilling up the spot. I said I thought my raised bed was going there and he said go get the stuff we'll build it.
I thought building a raised bed meant I didn't need to till the ground?! He says he has to till the ground first so that 1) easier to plant 4x4's for the corners of my raised bed and 2) it will prevent the grass from growing up HUH?!
I understand sorta his reasoning for number 1, but not for number 2. He knows I said I would be laying newspaper and/or cardboard in the bottom of my raised bed to prevent weeds/grass from growing. I had this whole idea of pretty raised beds with walking paths between them, and I tried to explain that to him, and he's like, you can walk through the rest of the garden to work your bed.
I got upset because I told him tilling defeated the purpose of a raised bed. I said I thought that with a raised bed, I would be eliminating the need to till first. Maybe I am wrong.
Regardless, The Enabler and I had a full blown argument (yep, that's the first one for the year) regarding this stupid raised bed. So I told him to forget it, do the garden the way we always do.
So would someone please give me some tips on your raised beds, because right now I have lumber going to waste.
DH and I had agreed on spot for my first raised bed yesterday. Well, today he's out there tilling up the spot. I said I thought my raised bed was going there and he said go get the stuff we'll build it.
I thought building a raised bed meant I didn't need to till the ground?! He says he has to till the ground first so that 1) easier to plant 4x4's for the corners of my raised bed and 2) it will prevent the grass from growing up HUH?!
I understand sorta his reasoning for number 1, but not for number 2. He knows I said I would be laying newspaper and/or cardboard in the bottom of my raised bed to prevent weeds/grass from growing. I had this whole idea of pretty raised beds with walking paths between them, and I tried to explain that to him, and he's like, you can walk through the rest of the garden to work your bed.
I got upset because I told him tilling defeated the purpose of a raised bed. I said I thought that with a raised bed, I would be eliminating the need to till first. Maybe I am wrong.
Regardless, The Enabler and I had a full blown argument (yep, that's the first one for the year) regarding this stupid raised bed. So I told him to forget it, do the garden the way we always do.
So would someone please give me some tips on your raised beds, because right now I have lumber going to waste.