My lessons learned
- leave plenty of space (mentioned several times before in this thread)
- decide early if tomatoes are going to be staked or not (we use cages, too), helps limit "discussion" on "what are we doing again?" as the plant grow
- understand the kids ball/softball/soccer schedules IN ADVANCE.

My DW's work kept her busy on the weekends and I spent my free time running a shuttle service, not playing in the gardens
- Have I mentioned about leaving enough space (based on plant variety)?

- have a plan for what you want to eat and what you want to can/preserve/dry and plant accordingly
- limit DW's involvement in prior step (18 mounds of summer squash, really?

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- be willing to put your life on hold when the veggies are ready to pick.
- some things can be cheaper/less stressful if you "outsource" We like to do a lot of sweet corn, so I buy it fresh from the farmer up the road.
- plant veggies the kids will actually eat.
- remember, what the kids don't like, the chickens will....have a plan for the hens
- did I mention leaving enough space between rows?
Loving the other comments and ideas, too!!!
