Hubby won't do the dishes. He'll decide to make dinner and will use up almost all of the pots and pans. Then, if I don't have time to do them, he'll complain about not having any clean dishes. His excuse for not doing them? He works 40 hours a week. Last time I checked, even w/out having a job, I work more hours than he does. I start on stuff shortly after he leaves, only take a couple of half hour breaks during the day, am still working on stuff when he gets home at 4:00, and will normally do stuff until it gets too dark to see outside. Plus, I normally work all day Saturday. I try not to do anything on Sunday since I do need one day to relax, but at times I have to. If RU is away, that means I have her animals to feed, and at times, I have to put out hay.