Abifae - Ciao Babies!

[abifae]

Oh! A conceptual thing.

Roy does that. He loves the concept of being healthy but has no interest in doing the things that are healthy.

So Evie loves the concept of family and love. It just is hollow.

 

[Wifezilla]

I think you nailed it.

 

[MsPony]

She could be throwing it around casually like any other word. I tend to say it to people when they do or say something awesome. I mean it almost as if "your great, I like you", and that seems to be how you use it these days.

Its knowing when love IS love that's the key, which could be hard I told my friend I loved her the other day when her dad died. I do love her, in a friendship/emotional way.

However, I love my fiance in a vastly different way, so love means something different if I'm seriously saying it, but sometimes it goes back to "your great, I like you".

Us humans are confusing *scratches head*

 

[abifae]

Us humans are confusing *scratches head*

uh huh.

you ARE!!

I think most people want benefits without work, so they enjoy concepts but not the actual thing. I see it a LOT in relationships. I like the concept of "wife" but having one is a pain so I ignore her and sleep around but I won't leave her because I love having a wife. Wife is a great concept! LOL.

I think Evie does that with relatives.

 

[MsPony]

Lol probably

 

[Wifezilla]

Yes!!!

Or like divorced women with unruly children who likes the IDEA of a strong, organized disciplinarian man to get everyone in line, so she marries a drill sergeant, then get pissed off that he "bosses her kids around"!

 

[abifae]

So that is dissonance, right? The difference between what you want in concept and what you want in reality? I bet THAT causes a lotta folk to not be happy.

 

[Wifezilla]

BINGO!

 

[abifae]

Boy! Wait til my dad asks if I learned anything new lately!

 

[abifae]

Because I'm really really bored....

01. Name? Abi

02. Gender? Female

03. Disneyworld or Disneyland? never been to either, never want to.

04. What is your favorite color? black, red, purple. Very dark rich jewel tone versions.

05. What is your favorite kind of gum? I don't like gum.

06. How much do you weigh? 150 I HOPE! Maybe as much as 160?

07. How tall are you? 5'11"

08. Can you swim? I can stay afloat and usually make it all the way across the pool!

09. Do you like to swim? meh. I like water enough. I just am not good at swimming.

11. What's on your mouse pad? Don't have one.

12. Favorite board game? Wow. No clue at all. Chinese checkers?

13. Favorite magazine? Saveur & Cooks Illustrated.

14. Favorite Actor? Ummm... Richard Gere, Johnny Depp, Antonio Banderas...

15. Favorite Actress? Not as sure on the girls.

16. Do you have an accent? I don't know.

17. Favorite smells? Rain. Good food. Blood. Coffee. Ummmm... Not sure what else. I like a LOT of smells. I'm like a puppy or kitten.

18. Least favorite smells? Vomit, rot.

19. Favorite sound? Rain on the roof or on leaves. Kitty purr.

20. Do you prefer pools or oceans? Oceans.

21. Do you watch Buffy The Vampire Slayer? Yep.

22. Pencil or pen? Pretty even. Pencils to draw.

23. Who's better - boys or girls? Girls are more annoying.

24. Would you like to own a motorcycle? Meh. I'm not safe on vehicles.

25. Do you sing in the shower? Nope.

26. Who's the best looking Disney character? I don't like Disney.

27. What is the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning? When I wake up, I remind myself who and what I am, where I am, what I do. I have to create the concept of myself or I'm lost all day.

28. How many rings before you answer the phone? Immediately or not at all.

29. How do you want to die? Fire bomb.

30. Have you ever called a 900 number? I don't think so.

31. Gold or silver? Silver

32. Would you ever go bungee-jumping? Sure! I prefer parachuting.

33. Do you like dressing up? Yes!!!

34. Would you rather be short or tall? I am tall.

35. Do you enjoy reading? Very.

36. What book are you reading now? Children of Dune, Saveur, several other books and mags...

37. Favorite books? Gosh. How many can I list?!? I like Heinlein, Pratchett, Jacqueline Carrey, Anne Bishop, Neil Gaiman.... I could list dozens...

38. What was the last movie you saw? Hum. It was just last week. Ummmm.... His Girl Friday!! That was it

39. Favorite movies? Serenity. Most of Pixar. Lots of sci fi.

40. Do you sleep with a stuffed animal? Sometimes.

41. What is your sign? I'm really not sure.

42. What are your personality traits? hummm.... *scratches head* ummmm.... decisive?


43. What's your biggest fear? That everything is real.

44. Would you ever have cosmetic surgery? Not unless they really had it perfected and it was going to make me a lot of money.

45. Future child's name? Thank goodness I'm fixed! Ixnay on the ildren-chay!

46. Favorite foods? Vietnamese, thai, spanish, greek, indian....

47. Chocolate or vanilla? chocolate, dur.

48. Do you like to drive fast? Yes.

49. Storms - cool or scary? Cool.

50. Do you like to dance? I would say so. Yes. Yes indeed. Uh huh.

51. Do you do drugs? Yep. I do take herbs medicinally but for some reason people don't count that as drugs.

52. Do you smoke? Not anymore.

53. What do you think of people who smoke? I don't even understand this question.

54. Do you drink? Water, coffee, raw milk.

55. Favorite drink? Water.

56. Do you think men and women could ever be just friends without wanting each other? Like ever in history? Sure. Especially gay men with lesbian women.

57. Do you eat the stems of broccoli? Yes.

58. If you could have any job you wanted, what would it be? An evil scientist or overlord.

59. What's your "type"? Sun dragon.

60. Do you bite your nails? No. I chew the skin around them though.

61. Any siblings? Real & imagined.

62. What movies have you cried in? Lots. I cry randomly. It's lame.

63. Do you believe in God? Nope.

64. Did you ever cry over a guy/girl? Yep.

65. Have you ever stolen anything? Yep!

66. Do you procrastinate? Too often LOL

67. Do you believe in fate? Nope.

68. Who's your favorite Sesame Street character? I liked the weird random musical monsters.

69. Do you organize your CD's? Sorta. Now they're all on my computer and I UBER over completely psychotically OCD it.

70. What is your favorite kind of music? Classical, folk, rock, metal... Just about anything melodic.

71. What are your favorite bands/artists? Avantasia, Journey, Clandestine, Loreena McKennitt, Blackmore's Night, Rainbow, Hammerfall, lots of middle eastern too...

72. What was the last CD you got? can't recall

73. MTV or VH1? MTV way back when there were music vids.

74. Who do you admire the most? Ummmm... Not sure. I admire anyone who becomes skilled at things or becomes very entirely themselves even though this often produces a "bad guy" LOL

75. Internet Boyfriends and Girlfriends? For what?

76. Are you single? Yep. I need a bed buddy though.

77. Favorite TV show? MASH, Firefly, Buffy, Big Bang Theory...

78. Blondes, Brunettes, or Redheads? redheads on girls... dark on boys.

79. Glasses or contacts? to wear? I want laser eye surgery.

80. What color are your eyes? They're ringed. blue-gold-green.

81. What is your natural hair color? rich brown lots of red highlights?

82. But what color is it now? same

83. Have you ever been in love? *shrugs* I love easily. It's the other emotions surrounding love that matter.

84. Any pets? 2 kitties

85. Good, decent, or poor grades? I flunked out of high school.

86. Is the glass half empty or half full? It's completely full. Part liquid, part gas. Sometimes solids in there too.

87. Do you type with your fingers on the right keys? Yep.

88. What's under your bed? Possibly a cat. Definitely carpet. There's an apartment under if you dig far enough but I doubt they'd appreciate my dropping in.

89. What is your favorite number? 13

90. Favorite sport to watch? Gymnastics. I like hockey too. And dance. And figure skating.