me&thegals said:
C-sections I see as more of a cultural thing. I'm just going on my own very limited experience, but I often hear about C-sections based on convenience for the mother and doctor, not medically necessary.
there is a lot of that. women have been taught for centuries that they aren't up to the challenge of childbirth or that their bodies don't know what to do. it's insane. how could we be alive as a species if we didn't know what to do?
the medicalization of childbirth has created TONS of problems. some of the main causes of emergency c-sections are actually epidurals and pitocin! your body actually
needs the pain in order to create the right conditions for productive labor and laying on your back (which you have to do once you have pitocin or an epidural) is one of the absolute worst things for healthy labor progression. pitocin stops the stimulation of your natural hormones which leads to more interventions. it's a terrible cycle.
when my sister had her baby in September, she went in for a regular check and they decided to keep her. right after i got to the hospital the nurse came in to give her pitocin. i asked why she needed it and she just said it was "standard procedure" since her labor wasn't very active. so i asked the dr when he came in why he kept her if she wasn't in active labor (this was 3 weeks before her due date). he said "well, she was in labor and would probably have had to come in later tonight anyway, so it was just easier to keep her." so it was "easier" to keep her and give her drugs than to let her go home and take a nap and come back to the hospital when her body was actually ready for it? i was furious. my sister is a total badass until it comes to questioning doctors and then she is a wimp, and they totally took advantage of that.
the guy who did her epidural (which i tried to convince her not to have) was a complete ass. she said they could go ahead and place it, but she wanted to wait to start it until she felt she needed it. well, he told her that was dumb. he was going into surgery and couldn't start it until he got back out and that could be a few hours. she said that was a risk she was willing to take. he placed the epidural and then started it and said "believe me, i know what i'm talking about." needless to say, i chewed him out. and guess what? her epidural wore off after 6 hours of labor and she pushed for the last 30 mins with no pain management (she refused to go to a birthing class where she would have learned to manage the pain).
i've attended births in remote African villages where the women are calm and supported by other women and have no benefit of technology. i can honestly tell you, i would rather give birth surrounded by those women than any of the medical professionals that attended my sister.