We are in a rural, agricultural designated area, a small neighborhood with acre lots. My in-laws live next door, and between us we have 3 acres (in-laws bought two to make sure they had 'breathing' room).
My DH and I are the 'oddballs' here. We spend most of our time at home outdoors, working around our property. We have been increasing our garden every year (up to five raised beds and a 15'x30' plot). The thing that caught the most attention among our neighbors is our front-yard chickens. We started with 10, and now have 42.
Other than our in-laws, I think there are only 3 other families here that would be able to be relied on. There is a gentleman who lives on another street who had some great ideas on irrigation and offered to help us build it. He travels a lot (trucker), but seems to be a really cool guy with some great, practical experience. Another man has been a butcher, when we have larger animals to butcher (hopefully in the next couple years) he has offered to help. And our next-door neighbor is a Sheriff's deputy, great guy. He doesn't know much about gardening or raising animals, but he's always willing to help out if we need anything.
There are some people in the neighborhood who try to take advantage of 'they system', the kindness of neighbors, whoever they can scam. We've been taken advantage of by a couple of them in the past, and that won't happen again. We also have new neighbors across the street, just moved in a couple weeks ago. I haven't seen them outside yet, but I need to go introduce myself. May get another ally here!