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Lovin' The Homestead
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I thought about posting this in finance, but it really is more a family issue. Yesterday we exchanged gifts with DHs family. We had warned everyone ahead of time that christmas was going to be tight this year and we would be giving small gifts, or made items.
DHs brother hasn't had a decent job in over a year. He works part time now, no benefits and debt up to his eyeballs. DH is technically still working, I work part time and we have very little debt. (mortgage really is all) Our gifts were as advertised, simple and yes, cheap.
BIL went all out. He probably spent more on his present to our dog than I did on his present and his daughter's! He made some snide aside about it, and I said, there are many things you could use that we could buy you. But you really have very little needs (since he is sponging off of inlaws) We are being careful until we get a good income source. He snorted and walked away.
OK we were cheap this year, we weren't other years. I think the point is that we have no debt and we don't sponge off of old people because we are careful.
DHs brother hasn't had a decent job in over a year. He works part time now, no benefits and debt up to his eyeballs. DH is technically still working, I work part time and we have very little debt. (mortgage really is all) Our gifts were as advertised, simple and yes, cheap.
BIL went all out. He probably spent more on his present to our dog than I did on his present and his daughter's! He made some snide aside about it, and I said, there are many things you could use that we could buy you. But you really have very little needs (since he is sponging off of inlaws) We are being careful until we get a good income source. He snorted and walked away.
OK we were cheap this year, we weren't other years. I think the point is that we have no debt and we don't sponge off of old people because we are careful.