Well, as with anything SS, we would like to think that we are working towards preparation. As you said, its hard to prepare oneself for a catastrophic illness, but not impossible.
It bears pondering, as one doesn't want to try to come up with data and information while dealing with the realities of a bad diagnosis....just as one doesn't want to be gathering food and other perishable goods during an emergency like a flood, fire, tornado.
No, see it doesn't bear pondering FOR ME at all. I am not going to research a million different possible illnesses just to be prepared, and by the time I "might" get who knows what, I am sure treatments will have changed. They change day to day. So for me I am not going down this road. Of course it can be "so different" for someone else.
The time to think about treatment options and decisions that suit your lifestyle and family is when you are clear headed and emotionally stable...not at the height of fear, grief and anger. Especially when doctors are pressing you to make a decision on treatments while you are in their office for the consult~ after hearing the worst. As the incidents of cancer are growing and not decreasing, in our population, it bears some serious thought.
This is the one of the biggest decisions some families or individuals will have to make in their life....do they really want to only prepare or think about it if it happens?
If we are talking living will and all that then yes I am prepared. Tony knows how I want to handle terminal illness and he told me his wishes. But that is common sense to discuss that---but not to research a million different possible treatments to any possible illness for me at this stage.
Not me. I've discussed all my health care preferences and treatments with my children and my mother. I want them to know, in the event that I am unable to make a decision, exactly WHAT I want to happen. I've written it down in a living will and we've also discussed what I will or will not do with a diagnosis of cancer or other terminal illness~and why. We've gathered data, read up on treatments, discussed the various aspects of these treatments and made our decisions on what we have found.
As I work very closely with cancer patients on a daily basis, I get to see the fallout of decisions made in fear or haste, I get to hear the voices of regret over certain decisions, and I get to see how such decisions affect the quality of life for these patients. Every single patient and their families wish they had been more prepared and had more information before they got their diagnosis. Not after.