I grew up in a time warp. ( and no I am not 100 yrs old yet ) No electricity, no in- door plumbing, and wood heating. Everyone had a cook stove and a separate wood stove in the living room. Cook stoves don't throw that much heat around. I used to lean against it. I don't recall if it was too hot in the summer; things were just what they were. I don't think air- conditioning was even a word then. (1970s) If you can't stand the heat and need to get out of the kitchen, a simple outdoor propane burner and a home made outdoor oven or solar oven will do the trick. Lots of baking can be done in a dutch oven with coals.
I have wind and solar. You will need batteries since the sun may not shine for days particularly in the winter but summer too. Winter days are mighty short as well. You learn to turn things off. A fridge doesn't take that much juice, but you must weigh the cost of the equipment for a solar + battery system against what you think the cost of propane will be in the forseeable future and also decide whether you will be buying or leasing the tank. Pros and cons there as well.
Propane will probably have lower more doable start up costs + you can also use an on demand water heater. You cannot run an electric hot water heater or clothes dryer on solar without a goodly # of solar panels and batteries. An inverter maxes out at 6000W and an electric water heater draws up to 3000W and a clothes dryer eats up 5000W which is almost too much on its own and definitly too much with anything else running and a second inverter would be needed. Inverters are very expensive. The ave. Joe including me do not have a 2nd one. You also need to be generating a 'h' of a lot of electricity and that means you have won the lottery and none of this matters because you can afford 40 solar panels and a 2nd inverter. Dryers are usually propane if you are off grid.
You must also consider that another energy hog is a toaster so think carefully about what you actually use in your house. The list you gave is certainly not a problem, but are you sure you accounted for everything? Most things can be managed by judicial timing of when they are used.
Another thing to consider is the washing machine. You must be careful about what definition of energy efficiency the manufactures are using.
A washing machine doesn't draw a lot of electricity in general, but an energy efficient front loader is energy efficient for WATER NOT ELECTRICITY. A front loader runs about 50-120 min depending upon cycle but doesn't use much water. One of the old style top loaders runs a 20-40 min cycle saving loads of electricity but wasting boatloads of water + its half the price of the front loader. More math.
