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Wannabefree
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Soooooo here's the latest greatest pothole in the road that is my life.....DH's new Dr. pretty much insists he get on disability 
I'm just thinkin....what next?! I don't think I have ever had so much CHANGE going on in my life at any one particular time as I do now. I=we, but ya'll know what I mean anyway 
It is just SO ugh! I like sameness, this is not sameness. For the past 2-3 years the snowball has been rolling along, gathering speed, adding a little at a time, but where is it GOING?! I dunno 
I have no idea what to do next. DH asked what I would do if I were him?! I AM him, and he is me, and this half of we hasn't a clue. STRESS! Blehhhhhhh! I can see a few pros of him getting on disability, and multiple cons. IF he does this, I HAVE to go back to school, work, or start a business...end of story, no doubt about it. We NEED a professional in this household IMO. He was it for the longest time. I just don't know how I can work, and do everything I do here too. There is only so much of it he can do...he can't make bread, mayo, etc. etc. He can't cook from scratch all that well, and yes, he could learn, he isn't stupid, but how will I have time to teach him anyway?! This changes everything...that is already being changed due to fostering...and it just seems like the world keeps throwing something new at us every few months now. It's a little overwhelming some days. Today was one of those.
I got alot of things done today though. I peeled cooked and mashed potatoes and put away about 15 pounds in the freezer. I got 5 loads of laundry washed dried folded and put up. I FINALLY got the floors swept, made more mayo, and cleaned out the fridge. I went with hubs to his Dr. appointment. I made pizza for my NP and took to the office for her and her nurses as a thank you for helping us get this medical crap straightened out. I made another for us for supper too. I had to pick up a few things from the store on the way back, and got home to company. Mom came for a visit on her way back from nieces dentist appointment. It has been a looooooong day, but I am glad I got some things done. Now, I just need to figure out what to do tomorrow.
I sure hope everyone has had a beautiful blessed day today! In the midst of all the craziness, I have had a good one
I'm just thinkin....what next?! I don't think I have ever had so much CHANGE going on in my life at any one particular time as I do now. I=we, but ya'll know what I mean anyway It is just SO ugh! I like sameness, this is not sameness. For the past 2-3 years the snowball has been rolling along, gathering speed, adding a little at a time, but where is it GOING?! I dunno I have no idea what to do next. DH asked what I would do if I were him?! I AM him, and he is me, and this half of we hasn't a clue. STRESS! Blehhhhhhh! I can see a few pros of him getting on disability, and multiple cons. IF he does this, I HAVE to go back to school, work, or start a business...end of story, no doubt about it. We NEED a professional in this household IMO. He was it for the longest time. I just don't know how I can work, and do everything I do here too. There is only so much of it he can do...he can't make bread, mayo, etc. etc. He can't cook from scratch all that well, and yes, he could learn, he isn't stupid, but how will I have time to teach him anyway?! This changes everything...that is already being changed due to fostering...and it just seems like the world keeps throwing something new at us every few months now. It's a little overwhelming some days. Today was one of those. I got alot of things done today though. I peeled cooked and mashed potatoes and put away about 15 pounds in the freezer. I got 5 loads of laundry washed dried folded and put up. I FINALLY got the floors swept, made more mayo, and cleaned out the fridge. I went with hubs to his Dr. appointment. I made pizza for my NP and took to the office for her and her nurses as a thank you for helping us get this medical crap straightened out. I made another for us for supper too. I had to pick up a few things from the store on the way back, and got home to company. Mom came for a visit on her way back from nieces dentist appointment. It has been a looooooong day, but I am glad I got some things done. Now, I just need to figure out what to do tomorrow.
I sure hope everyone has had a beautiful blessed day today! In the midst of all the craziness, I have had a good one
I have to laugh to keep from screaming 
