Big garden day for me! Almost all the permanent beds are marked out - 5 left to go. I transplanted a row of tomatoes, 3 rows (1 bed) of cabbage. DH says the cabbage are too close together, but IDK. It's supposed to be intensive planting. And my transplants don't look very good. I may be "thinning" them. a.k.a. they might die off.
DH put in the rest of the pea fence for me and fence posts to trellis 3 rows of tomatoes. He ran out of fence posts and I have 3 more rows of tomatoes left. (not sure what I'm going to do about that!)
I weeded. Just worked on digging out quack grass. That stuff is endless! I need to hoe tomorrow!

We might go fishing for Mother's Day. Well, DH and kids are probably going fishing and I will go if I have enough done in the garden. Going fishing from DH's aunt's dock in town, with MIL and nieces and nephew.
Feeling kinda meh about that. MIL has been stressing me out since DS3 was born. Before that the stress was limited to Christmas, but now it's too much, too often. Overgifting wouldn't be so bad except DH wants to keep everything ever received as a gift. He didn't make a stink over me returning 1/2 DS3's birthday gifts from her to the store, thankfully. I'll put that money in the bank and someday when he's struggling and bored (like in February), we'll go shopping or I'll order something for him.
DS11 tried his summer schedule today. I designed it so his old behavior tricks won't work - or at least won't be comfortable. The deal is 45 minutes of school, then 15 minutes of trumpet practice. If he does those focused, with self-control, etc, then 45 minutes of project/reading/craft time and 15 minutes of music play time. If he doesn't do the schoolwork, then CHORES for the rest of the day (or for 1 hour if I schedule to repeat the pattern 3x in the day). Well, he thought reading DS3's preK magazine was better than doing math today, so we went out to the garden and he did (or didn't do) garden work until dark. Then come back in and finish that 45 minutes of math. Funny how he's not having a problem focusing on the math now.

I hope his behavior changes. He is exhausting.