Natural childbirth any tips for the pain?

Denim Deb

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Glad to hear she arrived safely! But, sorry you had to go thru all that. :hugs
 

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Congratulations and welcome to your little girl! :hugs

So sorry it was such an ordeal, seems that women either have a very easy time or a horrible time--no middle of the road. I was very fortunate with both of my girls, although both labours were very fast, that there weren't any real complications.
 

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oops--sorry to have missed the fact that you already gave birth--congratulations!
 

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Thank you everyone!
 

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I’m due this July and now I’m scared :barnie I’ve had to have two operations involving my cervix and uterus. This puts me at risk for premature labor...... maybe I shouldn’t have typed in pregnancy into the search bar
 

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ChicenMomma, is this your first baby? Do you have trust in your doctor(s)? If not, find someone that you are comfortable with.

I will keep you and the baby in my prayers.
 

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ChicenMomma, is this your first baby? Do you have trust in your doctor(s)? If not, find someone that you are comfortable with.

I will keep you and the baby in my prayers.
I love my doctor but he is part of a network so I don’t have a garuntee it will be him when I go into labor. I think the fear is more the fact of this being my third pregnancy and the first where everything points at me actually having a baby this time not having to have a medically necessary procedure because something is wrong with the baby.
 

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I feel kinda obligated to go without the epidural. It’s more of a pride thing than anything else. DH’s exwife will forever be saying ‘well I didn’t need an epidural with Joey’ Joey was also an over 8lb baby and there was a decently long labor according to DH. Now I’ve got it stuck in my head if I get the shot I’m not as strong as her when in reality I’m a much better person. Sadly the little voice in my head tells me that if I get the epidural she wins.
 

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And don't watch the birth shows on TV, they always make it look so awful. It really is not as bad as I was afraid it would be.

There was a lady down the hall from me this time that was screaming like a bleating goat. I considered it comic relief. She probably should have gotten pain meds. Lol
 

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There was a lady down the hall from me this time that was screaming like a bleating goat. I considered it comic relief. She probably should have gotten pain meds. Lol
:yuckyuck:lol: I bet. I’m sure I’ll be fine, DH keeps telling me I’ll be fine. This time I actually have a baby bump! At 19 I had a molar pregnancy and three years ago we had to have an abortion because my poor daughter was so messed up, no amniotic fluid, no bladder or kidneys. Just a mess. The doctor who performed the procedure was amazing and I loved her for getting my daughters footprints for me. Once it’s safe again I’m getting a memorial tattoo of her feet as owl wings.
Losing Karrigan still has me screwed up mentally so it’s scaring me this time worrying I’ll lose this baby too.
 
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