Hi everyone! sorry i haven't been on lately, just life situations.
But I'm still here, working on being self sufficient.
Ok... I guess ya'll deserve some sort of explanation..
my great aunt died. So I've been helping out the family with stuff, then my best friends grandfather died (he was like my grandad!) So I'm just hoping that the whole "deaths come in threes" isn't true. I don't know who else would die... but I'm a hating it right now.
Plus school, and my crazy obsession with this new yogurt maker I found at the thrift store... and work...
Thank you roosmom, so weird I get on to post an update, and see how everyone is, and you've already left me a comment wondering where I disappeared to! Lol
Well I'm editing this because I've got something to say.
I hope everyone who has children reads this.
Ya know what, I'm 22 and married. I've seen so many post on here the last few minutes. And most of its about stuff I already know about. I remember helping both my grandmothers can when I was young. I remember helping dad to steer the bull calves, planting and tending the garden, collecting free corn cobs (from a special neighbor

) to feed the pigs so we could have fattened steers and pork. I remember getting paid $1(and I thought that was pretty good money!) a day to take care of my neighbors chickens when he went out of town. Heck, I remember my dad making me mow my dentist grass because my dad lost his job and couldn't finish paying the bill to fix my teeth. (and I totally believe it was worth doing that once a week for a summer because I have the most beautiful smile)
And you know what? I'm so thankful I have the parents I do. They helped to instill my work ethic, they taught me that money is only used for the necessities in life. I had an absolutely beautiful wedding thanks to them, one that fulfilled all of my fantasies and then some and it was only $2000, for EVERYTHING! (our rings were the most expensive part)
And I'm a girl... I guess its because I was raised in the country, in the south, that I feel like I'll be ok no matter what. I mean yah, I like using those nice conditioners to make my hair look great, but I know some "home made" recipes that work just as good, they just smell worse.
Anyway, this post isn't meant to offend anyone, I just want people to know that I was raised to be self sufficient. I was raised that money don't mean a thing, you just use it to pay your bills and to survive. The real joys in life can't be bought.
I want to encourage everyone who has taken this path to become self sufficient with kids, that you are doing the right thing. I never once realized, until now, that we didn't have much. I had books to read, didn't care about not having cable, I was never bored, there was always a chore to be done. I'm a much better person for what my parents taught me. I know I don't have to have the "new" style going around campus. That in the end, only the people that really love me will make sure they stick around in my life. And to me thats the most important thing: having people that love me for who I am in my life.
Well... alright I'm done with that. Now all I can say is that
GO BAMA!