toxic masculinity

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I went looking......
Now there is an actual catchy term for what used to be considered being a jerk or A-hole. I haven't heard this catchy phrase, but I bet it isn't long before the liberal media blames Toxic Masculinity for just about anything men do. Who knows? It might be even be classified as a disease and spin off a flurry of research, experimental drugs, and finally, the utopia cure in a pill.

Toxic masculinity
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The concept of toxic masculinity is used in psychology and sociology to describe certain traditional male norms of behavior in the United States and Europe that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves. Such "toxic" masculine norms include the traits of dominance, devaluation of women, extreme self-reliance, and the suppression of emotions.

Traditional stereotypes of men as socially dominant, along with related traits such as misogyny and homophobia, can be considered "toxic" due to their promotion of violence, including sexual assault and domestic violence. Other stereotypically masculine traits, such as self-reliance and the stifling of emotions, are correlated with increased psychological problems in men such as depression, increased stress, and substance abuse.

The socialization of boys often normalizes violence, such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression. Toxic masculine traits are characteristic of the unspoken code of behavior among men in American prisons, where they exist in part as a response to the harsh conditions of prison life.

"Toxic" masculine traits are contrasted with more traditionally positive masculine traits such as devotion to work, pride in excelling at sports, and providing for one's family. The concept of toxic masculinity was originally used by authors associated with the mythopoetic men's movement in contrast to a "real" or "deep" masculinity that they say men have lost touch with in modern society.

for more of this depressing crap.....

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toxic_masculinity
 

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Having been through an abusive marriage, I am nodding my head as I read that. And appreciating my non-toxic masculine DH :love
 

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I think it's good. The stereotype of feminists as man-hating needs to die. This is a way to appreciate men and all their weird stinky testosterone driven strange manliness, and separate that from men who are abusive and violent.
 

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Actually, there is a good reason to raise your hand to a woman.... if she's gonna shoot you, perhaps it might be a good idea to do what you can to prevent it?
 

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Actually, there is a good reason to raise your hand to a woman.... if she's gonna shoot you, perhaps it might be a good idea to do what you can to prevent it?

Good point... But I think the key is to never get in that situation to begin with (intentionally) :)
 

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