"Heat wave" here today too- it's going to hit 75!
That's it! I'm moving north! LOL I'd love it except for those months with that snow/ice stuff I hear about. Not so sure I want any part of that!
Had a really rough night with dad last night. Mom woke up at 2:30a and couldn't find him. He had slipped off the bed and was between the bed and the dresser on the floor. Took DH and I to get him up.
So, I've been up since then. Dad is on a roller coaster right now. He wants to get up to pee...sits there two seconds...wants back in bed...lays there 2 seconds wants back up to pee. Lather, rinse, repeat. That went on for over 2 hours. We finally made him a sign saying "SIT THERE LONGER". I'll spare ya'll the rest of the details, but it was not fun.
Mom is exhausted but at times like these she realizes that this is not going to work long term. If he falls while DH and I are not here - mom and the caretaker together could not get him up. Not sure the caretaker and I could get him up either. I'm pretty strong but he's 180 lbs of limp noodle when he's on the floor....sigh.
He was taking Aricept (alzheimers med) at home and was very weak. A few days after he got here he was much stronger and getting up and down by himself.
The pharmacy did an auto refill and notified me it was ready for pick up. I didn't know he had been taking it, so I talked to his docs office and they confirmed that he's been on it. I picked it up and started him back on it about 10 days ago. His mind has gotten better - a noticeable difference...but one of the many side effects is muscle weakness and increased frequency of urination. He won't be taking it anymore! I'd rather deal with the deteriorating mind than the deteriorating body at this point.
Poor mom - she needs about 24 hours of uninterrupted sleep.
Gonna give DH about 20 more minutes in bed then he's gotta move downstairs so I can get outside and work on that fence.