abifae said:
Beekissed said:
I find them extremely creepy. I don't call some complete stranger or someone who hasn't bothered to look me up for the last 25 years a "friend"...its just weird.
Glad it's not just me.
PLUS people can FIND you. I don't care that I don't have to friend them. They see who and where you are. That's effed up.
I spent a lot of energy getting rid of people. I'd rather they not know I was in the US, let alone in CO.
The very people who are careful to not expose their real names and locations on forums and chat rooms will expose everything on Facebook....because everyone who can view it is their "friends".
I've read article after article about employers who use FB to screen employees or even decide if they should be let go, according to their personal life as it is revealed on line. One person I know personally was let go from his good job because his wife bad mouthed the company on FB.
Identity theft? Most ID theft is from friends and family or neighbors...just heard that on the news yesterday.
I know people can find you anyway if they are determined...but why make it so darn easy? You never know what you post on there that can come back to bite you, no matter how benign.
I only post very general statements like I'm having a good day, how much I thank the Lord for this or that...usually a one line, generic howdy. The only people I want any deeper in my life are the ones that are already there that I have met personally or am related to.
I reveal much more on here, I know, but this is a much smaller forum and not quite as open to predatory people. Even yet...I don't post my real name, my employer, my income, my credit status, etc.
I guess I just don't like nosey people and I'm a little private in my lifestyle.