baymule
Sustainability Master
We were a team in everything we did. We did have our squabbles, two head strong people. The farm was my thing. He would have been happy in town, in our old house, but wouldn't have been active like he was here. I do believe his health would have deteriorated. On the farm I was always dragging him into something and working his a$$ off. I'd look at him and tell him, "You're done. Go to the house." He usually was knocked out in his recliner when I went in later.Many hugs @baymule I'm tearing up reading about your teamwork with BJ and coping without him. I'm eager to see your adventures in the next year while you move and curious where you end up in a few years.
Oh, I will be off on new adventures. I have a LOT to do here and a LOT to do there. Don't know where I'll wind up, but it's going to be a wild ride.
A good marriage just keeps getting better. Not always every day, but skip a day or so, then catch up. There are train wrecks along the way, one or the other will derail. Arguments, mad, wanting to knock him in the head and tell God that he died....... Sometimes we'd just start laughing. We had ups and downs, but never turned on each other. You will have times in your marriage that everything goes wrong. Never blame each other, work at the hard times to draw closer together instead of letting things that go wrong in life drive you apart. Believe me, things will go wrong. It's what you do with hard times and how you treat each other that will make or break a marriage. As the years go by, you truly become one.This. This was the sentence that broke me.